Adjective:
zachikazi, wamkazi, ofooka, bwino, nadwala, odwaladwala, kukomoka, mokhudza, chibadwidwe, konyansa, yakuti, mwamuna salira, wachifundo, yofewa, wosakhwima, wofatsa, wolekerera.
...or around women, or at times even EFFEMINATE men.